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The biggest unanswered question for me is “Why?” Why did my son have to die and not me? Why was I left behind to deal with this loss for the rest of my life? Why can’t I feel halfway normal anymore?
Once in a while, but I try very hard not to dwell there. It does my mental health no good to ask “why” when there are no answers.
I always ask myself, “why us?” It always seems like these kind of things won’t ever happen to you. They just happen to other people. My son was so strong, holding his head up well and getting around pretty good for age. I have no idea how he could have suffocated in his crib bumper. I always wonder why I put that in the crib in the first place, and I know he would still be here if I hadn’t done that.
Love to you.
Other than why does this keep happening to us, I don’t have a ton of questions, there are definitely no answers. Nothing makes sense.
Yes. Biggest unanswered question:WHY??
Yes I have no answers, many questions, waiting for trial date,
I was so crushed for six years when my wife passed away in 2010. I still have unanswered questions. 🙁
There are so many questions. Why did she want to leave? Who hurt her so bad? Is she happy again? Does she know how much i love her? These are all things i wonder every day. What would she have been as an adult? There are so many things i want to know.
Yes a lot of questions, but I will get those answers when I see my son again. But then it won’t matter.
Yes- I have many questions with no answers…but I know I wont get them until I meet my daughter again at those pearly gates of heaven.
Everyday I question “what if and the “if onlys”. And more than anything “WHY”.
Yes so many unanswered questions and this is why….person still out there somewhere
I feel like for every question I get answered, I have more questions……
I have millions of questions like why my son that was so good. There are mean people killing and abusing people they get by just fine. Why me with only one child? Why was him instead of me? He was my life and now I have his little girl that is so much like him, but she will never know him except what she is told.
Absolutely, more questions than answers. Why???? That question will never b answered and it haunts me every day.
no, not really.
Of course I ask, “WHY? WHY? WHY?” There is no rhyme or reason to this. I had always wanted my two beautiful sons and then later they were such wonderful fathers, so why them? I don’t even really understand what happened? Was it a murder? How can I believe in a good loving God, when the two people I truly loved and cared about are taken away in a flash, without warning and I couldn’t even say good-bye. My whole reason for being is gone and senseless. My only children. WHY???
I have more regrets right now than questions but I guess my biggest question would have to be WHY!!!
There are too many questions about why my 13 year old grandson would think that suicide was his only answer. He was raised in a loving, church going, family oriented environment. I heard someone say if you know the how, you can deal with the why. That’s so far from the truth. The answers are nowhere in this life. I know all will be revealed. I am waiting for that day.
Yes…. absolutely I do. I hope God is ready for me because I will butt my way to the head of the line and he better have answers for me!
Yes, I feel as though I get past it all or at least move on then the questions come… I will never know why my mom didn’t call and ask for help. Why she was always the strong one for everyone else but herself. I’ve recently read that sometimes suicide is the final way for those to love themselves. Sadly it makes sense. Just wish my love could have been enough.